Since it was published in 2000, thousands of children, and even adults, have learned how to stop others from antagonizing them by listening to the simple but often counterintuitive lessons by Bullies to Buddies creator, Izzy Kalman. It is beautifully narrated by his older daughter, Lola. It can possibly save you hundreds or thousands of dollars of expensive counseling or therapy. It also features a recording of Izzy playing the entertaining role-playing game he uses to reveal to clients the optical illusions that cause the problem of bullying, and how to make the bullying stop.